Colors of Autumn

Birthday Wishes.

Last Saturday was my 29th birthday. I like to thank my dear family and friends who wishes me all happiness in this life. I would like to give credits to my husband as he remembered my birthday this year :D. Last few years my birthday wishes came from him few days later but this year.. pagi2 lagi dah ucapkan happy birthday. :D Men cannot remember dates.. so tak leh nak cakap apa. hehe. Malamnya pulak dia belanja makan at marumatsu .. a Japanese restaurant. Makan besar jugak la malam tu.. thanx again dear. Before i finish this post i would like to wish happy birthday to kak long (15/11) ainul (22/11) and my beloved naqib (29/11). I can always remember their birthday because it's a week a part. Hope you guys have a wonderful birthday this year..


Sedapnya...


Terima kasih boss belanja makan :D


Enjoynya makan

Makan makan Jepun

Kalau anda DAP... wajib tengok ni.

Sorry mate!.. this is not a political post.DAP - Di Alam Percintaan.. heheh.. i know it's lame.. but who cares.. :D

I would really like thank my sis in law irfah for showing me that you can watch movies in youtube, and most importantly thanx to youtube or should i say people who download all this videos to youtube, i can always 'berangan' that is me and hubby when i see all these loves story....sighhh

Friends who dont realize this... tengok youtube.. u can find all your favorite movies there. Of course it's a bit hassle that u have to see it bit by bit but hey... i got time :D Suri rumahtangga kan?..hehe. This video i post here is from If Only and do remember to bring a box of kleenex if you want to watch this. It is so intense... must watch this movie ya!

Aksi malisa di hari sukan

Good Job Malisa!

Malisa with teacher Ana and friends

Budak- budak besar main musik, malisa pun
main jugak.. tapi melody out..heheh

Malisa showing her talents... menari pusing-pusing

Panas betul haritu, lupa nak pakaikan malisa

sun block... hitam ler dak malisa tu.

Lisa dan kael lepaking..

An hour in doho park.

wow... what a view.


sekali sekala dapat bermanja dengan ayah seronok
budak-budak.



Kawai deska?



Mikael berangan apa la tu..



picnic time!!


Me and my hero.. ultramikael to be exact

Five Best Things to Do for Your Relationship

Hehehe... dah macam blog untuk relationship pulak. Just read on.. some are true, some are funny but most importantly must take some lesson from all this.



Are you ready to take your relationship to a new level? Heed the wisdom of these five experts:

1. "Stop all shame, blame, and criticism. Instead ask for what you want in a clear, specific, and positive manner, and express appreciation for your partner. To elaborate: Men need to feel competent—that they make a contribution and that it is noticed."

— Harville Hendrix, PhD, author of Getting the Love You Want

2. "Change from a critical habit of mind, in which you're very involved with your partner's mistakes, to a positive one, in which you catch him doing something right."

— John M. Gottman, PhD, author of The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships

3. "When your relationship starts to break down, you need AAA: an Apology, Affection, and a promise of Action. You say you're sorry for what you've said or done to hurt or disappoint your partner. You immediately offer a hug, a kiss—some meaningful gesture of warmth. You pledge to do something that matters to your partner."

— Mira Kirshenbaum, psychotherapist and author of The Weekend Marriage

4. "With books on the market like How to Make Love Like a Porn Star, one of the greatest services you can do for a guy is to reassure him that he doesn't have to make love like a porn star.You can show him how to have sex like a woman: creative, sensual, non-genital-based, and more pleasure- than orgasm-focused."

— Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First

5. "All relationships grow a bit stale as time goes by, and the longer-lasting they are, the staler they can get. The best thing you can do is pump in some fresh air. Along weekend in a romantic hideaway would be ideal, but even a few hours in a motel helps. Don't tell anyone where you are, turn off your cell phones, and unplug the TV. When you get home, you'll find your relationship has acquired ruddy cheeks."

— Dr. Ruth Westheimer, psychosexual therapist and author of 52 Lessons on Communicating Love